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All the little things, thats what counts

At least an each hour a day. You can spare it.

Most of it we are wasting looking at a computer, playing on our phone, watching mind numbing shows, and video games. Whatever it is, we all have the time but we choose to waste it. We just have to manage it. We have to set goals, we have to put a time limit on it.

Everyday all the little things you do day in and day out, that’s what counts.

Are you making good use of the time you are given to accomplish what you want?

I have a problem with over thinking so many things and dragging my feet to finish something because I just don’t want to do it. I have to buckle down , make a list and set days to do things  I don’t want to do. There will come a day when I can delegate some of these tasks, right now my kids help me. Boy does it feel good to get the list done, crossing it off, knowing it’s not nagging me in the back of my mind anymore, setting me free to accomplish what I really want and love to do!!!

Do you know what you really want out of life?

Stop wishing and start doing.

Start now.

Start right this moment.

All the littlest small baby steps they count. You can do it!!



~Be the Light~



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When you find what you love go for it


Travel. It’s in my blood. It’s in my heart. Living life and loving life and finding all the beauty in this life.  It’s not just about traveling though it’s about choosing moments of life. It’s seeking  adventure and choosing cherished moments with your friends and your loved ones. It’s not about escaping life, it’s for life not to escape us.

It is about getting away from the everyday routine and really just getting those real, raw, uninterrupted moments of what life is all about. Human connection. Love. Seeing the world God made for us.

I am part of something that I want everyone to be a part of,  if it’s not for you that’s  cool, I just hope that you are doing what you love and living the life of your dreams. I have found what my heart was made for and I want to share it with anyone who is looking for the same thing.

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I am only seeking those who are ready for more out of life.


~Be the light~



Not like I used to be….

img_8527I remember a time where I would only dream of going somewhere alone with the hubby or taking a family vacation. It seemed unreal and out of reach. We could barely afford groceries and all our bills let alone go somewhere fun.

Life was a routine of debt up to our eyeballs and the never ending chores and work. It was all but a life of celebrating for us. Why did it have to be so hard? We could never seem to catch up.

To be able to afford a trip we would find clever ways to go. It would end up being mostly the kids and I because the hubby had to stay back to work and I would have to go on a trip as cheap as possible so we wouldn’t go into more debt.  My mom worked for the airlines so we would jump on flights with her and use the buddy passes and sometimes wait in the airport for hours trying to get on a flight just so we could have a cheap trip somewhere. Most trips were going to see family because we had a free place to stay and we would cram two weeks trying to  fit  everyone in that we hadn’t seen in the last  few years and we would be at everyone elses beckon call. It was really not much of a vacation at all but I took what I could get.

I really wanted to travel but my dreams of that seemed so far to reach.

Then we made some huge decisions. We knew to have the life  we were dreaming of, changes had to be made. The same old thing we had been doing just wasn’t working. We were unhappy in so many areas and the prayer we had prayed was finally being answered.  We were invited to a financial class and there the hubby and I decided we would get out of debt. We made  some large sacrifices. Along the way things happened that tried to make it hard for us to follow through but we did it. We kept on trucking through the muck. We started to save money and life started to get a little easier. We sold our house and things we didn’t need and downsized for a few years.We were finally getting to a point of financial peace.

But I still had the dream of wanting to travel and it seemed so out of reach. Raising a family is expensive and traveling with a large family is costly.

We then made a decision to start our own business and that changed our world immensely. Starting a business was one of my husbands big dreams and we felt we were at a point we could do it. Things were rough at first but we had gone through so many life lessons that had toughened us up that we knew we could get through anything.  Everything you could think of was thrown at us to make it as difficult as possible to want to keep going but we did.  Fast forward almost 6 years and business is good but it consumes a large part of our life and we need to get away from the stress of it all.

And still my dreams of traveling were sitting in the back seat.

But eventually the time came that we decided we would go on a real family trip somewhere fun. We were were ready for a nice break and we wanted to enjoy our family before they were all grown up. We had saved up and took a fancy trip to Disney world.  It was a trip of a lifetime. We knew it was not one we could ever do again because it was such a luxury.

The following year we wanted to do another fun trip but didnt have quite the extravagant trip planned or money saved so budget trip it was. I like to find sales so I shopped and shopped but that doesn’t always work out because cheap isnt always the cleanest or nicest but we made do. We had fun but it still was not quite right. I was happy though that we were starting to create memories before the kids left home.

Then I was shown a new way to vacation.  The deals and prices were amazing. I could actually start affording to take my family of 5 to nice hotels and have the fun luxury vacations we were wanting. I am able to save money in all areas of traveling from cars to entertainment.  I also learned a way  that I could run it as another business and earn free travel. We already owned a business but I wanted a more freedom online style business than what we were doing and this one was perfect. So I jumped in!

In the last year I have traveled more than I could have ever imagined without breaking the bank. I have ways to earn money to travel and I am fulfilling my dreams. It is a dream come true.

I am so excited we have been able to take our kids more places than I thought. Our family is living life to the fullest. I have been able to go on trips with my hubby and cherish the time we need with each other. We already have several trips planned for the new year. I couldn’t have asked for anything more awesome for us. I never want to be like I used to be unhappy with no zest for  life. I am so thankful for this life we are creating and choosing to live!

And theres always room for more….



~Be the Light~




Life · Travel

Taking a little time away…

We had to get away. We needed it.

Sometimes we don’t have it all together and we forget to stop and enjoy the moment.  But we decided to do it. Its hard to do. Its an effort. But its worth it.

We got out of our environment. We are cherishing some family.  We are cherishing each other.  It is good.


~Be the Light~


ChooseToday · Life

It is ok to not know

Working hard. Monday is here.

My weekend was very busy but I got a lot accomplished. We got to celebrate the birth of a life of someone I love dearly, my dad. My dad through his actions made me the person I am today and I thank him for that.

But I know that I am not done growing and I still want so much more out of life. I am up learning already. I want to be better. I will be better.

I want to grow in every area of my life.

I still have a lot of work.

I still don’t know it all.

It is ok to not know.

DO you ask yourself where you want to be in 5-10 years?

Are you setting yourself up with a life you love to live?

A life you can share with others so they see the goodness in a dark world?

Are you surrounding yourself with people who lift you up and want you to be more?

FOLLOW John Maxwells rule of 5: The Rule of 5 is simply a series of activities that you do EVERY DAY that are fundamental to your success. every day  read, every day file, every day  think, every day asks questions and every day write.


Can we do it? Let’s be more. Let’s grow together!


~Be the Light~


Life · Travel

If you love to travel…

Not everyone Loves to travel as much I do but everyone Loves finding great deals!

One of my favorite things is helping people see that they can enjoy life and what better way than to do it by saving some money along the way!

This guys always has  some great tips on traveling with miles. Check him out here


Let have more fun and freedom in life🌴☀️😎✈️


~Be the Light~


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ChooseToday · Life

We all Have the time….

We all say it and do it.  We are just so busy.

But who asked you to be this busy?

Were you forced or did your mind tell you that you had to be busy so you could let everyone know just how important your time is and that you just don’t have any?

This world has become so crazy with schedules and trying so hard to keep up that we forget we are in control of our calendars.

We are the ones choosing to run around and try and fit so much in and most of the time its wearing us down and we are so exhausted we forgot why we are doing what we were seeking to do.

This is where being intentional with our time and with our choices of what we pick is so important. I am speaking to mysef as well because I get caught up in over doing everything because I think thats what I am suppose to do.

And sometimes it is for a season but the greatest thing is realizing that we have a choice in what we put on our calendar and what we choose to do daily.

We all have time, it is just the lack of time management that we struggle with.

Today I am choosing to be intentional with my time.  I am reading,thinking, writing, asking questions, filing everyday. I am choosing how my time will be spent. I will have control over the day instead of the day having control over me.

Recap your day and see if you were able to do what you set out to do or if it ended up taking control over you. You can do it with your calendar and start reflecting and start choosing.

Do you know why you are doing what you would like to do with your life?


~Be the Light~



It went by in a blur…

This week.

Where did it go?

Its Friday already?

I am sitting here wondering where my week went and surprised it is already the weekend.

So many things have been going on I forgot to pay attention to what day it was…..

Here I sit writing because I don’t want to lose sight of my goals even on the weeks that fly by and my mind has no idea where all the time went.

It might happen to your day or your week but Don’t let that happen to your life….





~Be the Light~




ChooseToday · Life

All consuming Fear inside of me


Why is fear so hard to overcome?

Here I am sitting in the stillness listening to my mind telling me all the things that I want to do but don’t feel like its worth doing or that I am worth doing it.

Everything I want in life tells me that I am just a failure. Everything I want to work for is a lie. Everything I told myself is truth is not. My mind says Heather your fears are greater than your actions. All these words mean nothing because you are letting yourself be held back. By your own self.

And so I say STOP…. Fear be Gone

You will choose the life of your dreams and you will not wait any longer. It is time to soar….



~Be the Light~



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~Be the Light~